Behind the riffs & all..

In every relationship, there will be the riffs, the conflict, the misunderstanding. When it happens, I need to remind myself that people make mistakes...people need room to grow...so what if they are wrong & we are right? We uphold the right with much love and grow. Having done that, we leave the other with the opportunity to learn from the mistake. Sometimes, leaving a relationship for a certain issue which isn't significant is not worth it. Should I close one eye to a wrong or be dumb about it? Of course not! Please do tell...but say it with love. Say it once or twice, but if our advise falls to deaf ears, just drop it & continue to pray that the other would eventually wake up one day.

 And when we're the wrong party, lets not react negatively. Do eat the humble pie. Check our life and choose to do the right thing. After all, I acknowledge that there were many things that my friends & love ones were right about..Boy am I glad that I accept their advise and make right the wrong. Real friends..real relationships go through the fire of riffs in order for it to come out even much stronger. To have real meaningful and strong relationships, that is worth building and fighting for.