Ouch! That hurts!
A few months ago I was confronted by a fellow friend on my behavior. So what was addressed? The brash statements I made and announced publicly concerning the person who had confronted me(well, more like among close knit of friends). And how I tend to get defensive when being told of certain feed backs. When the person wanted to talk to me personally, I already knew in my heart, oh no..what have I done? But at the same time, I told myself, now, now. Don't overeact. It may be something that is good for me. & even if its something that is hurtful, perhaps it is for me to change. So ok. Lets do this! So I braced myself for the news & needless to say, it hurts! God knows how I was controlling my emotions at that time. When I got back home, I repented for what I've done & told God to help me change. The confrontation was such an eye opener. What I've learnt from it is this: Sometimes we get too comfortable with our love ones that we take it for granted that certain re